Kit Perez

I am a trauma recovery coach with backgrounds in trauma counseling and counterintelligence. I work with people rebuilding their lives after coercive control, high-control groups, and relationships that ran on manipulation as well as childhood abuse and sexual trauma.

My approach draws on two disciplines. I hold an MA in Trauma Counseling and an MA in Intelligence, with professional training in statement analysis and the detection of deception and manipulation. Trauma counseling tells me what coercion does to a person. Intelligence training tells me how it was done. Together, they let me help you reconstruct the exact methods of influence that were used on you, which is the piece most people are missing when they know they were harmed but cannot yet name the mechanism.

The work is practical. We map the tactics that shaped your decisions, restore your ability to trust your own read, and rebuild the judgment that was turned against you. From there, we move to the ground you live on day to day: holding boundaries, recognizing manipulation early, and making decisions from your own footing.

I work with people who are:

• Leaving or recovering from a high-control group or coercive organization
• Exiting a coercive or emotionally abusive relationship
• Carrying the aftermath of manipulation, gaslighting, or betrayal and trying to understand how it shaped them
• Ready to do the work to heal

You set the pace and share only what you choose to. My role is to help you see clearly and to leave every decision in your hands.